Kia Her, 41, of Milwaukee, Wisconsin, died on December 7, 2025, in a domestic violence incident at her home near North 78th Street and West Silver Spring Drive. Police responded at 3:30 a.m. after reports of gunfire and found her fatally wounded.
Her partner, Chang Thao, 45, shot her during an argument before turning the weapon on himself. The Milwaukee County Medical Examiner’s Office confirmed her death as a homicide caused by a single gunshot wound to the head. The incident was witnessed by Kia’s young child, prompting immediate involvement from child welfare services. Investigators classified the case as a domestic homicide, noting no broader public threat.
Kia was born in 1984 in Milwaukee to Hmong immigrant parents who had fled conflict in the 1980s. Raised in a close‑knit Hmong American community on the city’s north side, she carried forward the resilience of her heritage. She earned a certificate in administrative assistance from Milwaukee Area Technical College in 2006, which led to roles supporting immigrant families in community programs.
Her family life centered on her child, whom she protected and nurtured with devotion. Kia’s home was a gathering place for siblings and extended relatives, where she hosted traditional meals of sticky rice and papaya salad, strengthening cultural and family bonds.
She balanced professional responsibilities with personal joys. Her routines included morning walks along the Menomonee River Parkway, sewing traditional Hmong embroidery for family gifts, tending a balcony herb garden, and volunteering at cultural festivals. These pursuits reflected her creativity and commitment to community.
A private family service is scheduled for December 14, 2025, focusing on healing for her child and loved ones. Donations in her memory may be directed to the Hmong American Women’s Association, supporting families affected by similar challenges.
