It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Ruth Ann Howe Demarest, a cherished matriarch and longtime resident of Vass, North Carolina. Mrs. Demarest died peacefully at her home on Sunday, January 4, 2026, with her family by her side. She was 85 years old.
Born Ruth Ann Howe on April 10, 1940, in Union County, New Jersey, she was the daughter of the late George Howe and Rose Howe Acquaviva. She grew up in a family with her sister, Marie, and brother, Andrew Howe, both of whom preceded her in death. Her East Coast roots and family values remained a cornerstone of her identity throughout her life.
Ruth built her own family with dedication and love. She is survived by her four children: daughters Susan Dunn of Cameron and Anne Demarest of Vass, and sons Jay Demarest, Jr. of Florida and Michael Demarest of Asheboro. Her role as a grandmother was one she held dear, and she is survived by two grandchildren. The family mourns the earlier loss of her granddaughter, Skylar Dunn.
Ruth’s life in the quiet community of Vass was marked by her involvement in local activities and her deep connections with neighbors and friends. While specific details of her community contributions would be confirmed through local sources, residents often remember individuals like Ruth for their steady presence and the personal bonds they forge in small towns. The Sandhills region, with its distinct character, was the backdrop for her later years.
The family has indicated that services will be private. They have requested privacy during this time of grief but have expressed gratitude for the outpouring of support from friends and the Vass community. Memories of Ruth’s kindness, her strength as a mother, and her peaceful nature are being shared by those who knew her.
The family, friends and the entire community of Vass in North Carolina are deeply devastated during this difficult time. Please, remember them in your prayers and you can also express your condolences in the comment section below.