We regret to inform you that James Matthew Failor, a beloved Shelbina, Missouri resident, passed away peacefully on January 7, 2026. His graceful passing at the age of 52 has left an indelible loss in the lives of his friends, family, and the little town in northeast Missouri.
James was born in Quincy, Illinois, on February 1, 1973. His upbringing in the heartland influenced his personable and grounded personality. He embraced the rhythms of rural Missouri life with calm resilience, and his path from the neighboring Illinois border to creating a home in Shelbina demonstrated a dedication to family and community.
James took great joy in the simple joys of life, especially his ardent devotion to the St. Louis Blues, where game days were occasions for excitement and companionship. He enjoyed fishing and setting lines in nearby waterways to relax and enjoy the peace of nature, frequently transforming these excursions into treasured memories with loved ones.
James’s life revolved on his family, and becoming a father gave him the most feeling of pride and purpose. He cultivated relationships that reflected his caring nature by giving his son, Coty, and stepdaughter, Amanda, unconditional love, support, and direction. While his mother, Diane, continued to be a rock, grieving the loss of a son who provided consolation and dependability in return, his lifelong girlfriend, Charlene, enjoyed the daily warmth of company.
James leaves behind his mother Diane, son Coty, stepdaughter Amanda, and lifelong partner Charlene, who will all continue the legacy of his loving presence and unwavering support. The intensity of their sorrow demonstrates the significant influence he had as a source of stability and humor, cultivating bonds based on mutual joy and trust. His legacy will live on in Shelbina thanks to the tales of generosity and dedication he woven into the lives of people around him.
The family, friends and the entire community of Shelbina in Missouri are deeply devastated during this difficult time. Please, remember them in your prayers and you can also express your condolences in the comment section below.